YOU ARE NOT STUCK!!!

I’ve met quite a number of successful people who told me that the only “BUT” in their lives is their marriage. These are people who evidently fear God and definitely will want to patch things until Jesus comes back. What they are saying is “HELP I AM STUCK”. They have refused to face the problem and they now see marriage as an indispensable evil. Marriage is not an essential evil, it is ordained of God.

President OBAMA a child born to a single mother, raised by his grandmother, rose to be the President of the United State of America simply because he believes you can change the situation that brings unhappiness and dissatisfaction and that nothing has to remain the way it is if you do not want it that way.
God decided to give us a sound mind so that we can stop disturbing heaven about matters our minds could probably solve.

“For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind”. 2Tim. 1:7

You can solve that problem only if you can look inward. You might even be the problem. Have you ever seen a mouse caught in a trap? It is so desperate to get away and in its bid to break out gets hurt so badly it dies there. All the mouse cries for is help because it is stuck. Each time you say I’m stuck in your mind, you are as helpless as the trapped mouse and so you just give up on yourself. Every effort you put toward making your home a sweet one is worth it. It will yield profit.

In all labour there is profit: but the talk of the lips [tendeth] only to penury. Proverbs 14:23

You weaken your mind so much, you begin to think of odd things and act in odd ways that you hurt yourself the more when you begin to feel trapped. When you see your marriage as a trap you begin to make a lot of wrong moves which eventually hurt your marriage the more. Do new things to have new result. Change your thinking pattern.
I have a good idea to share with you. The escape route is not in any other person or any other place. It is right within you. Look inward and you will find a break out route in there. You are the primary focus in every issue of your life. If you do not move, nothing moves. Any thing you do not do for yourself nobody does for you. At best, people will help you when you have already initiated something. You must get determine to change the situation around your life and marriage. God is also waiting to help you if you’re interested in change.

You have presented your spouse as lazy, dirty, mean, harsh, unromantic, assuming, nonchalant, daring etc. We are tired of all these. Take charge of your life and your marriage. Joy in life and marriage is purchasable if you can pay the price. Sow a seed of love today and you will reap love. Forget what happen in the past and move on to a clean slate. YOU ARE NOT STUCK!!!